…by this response on eHarmony from a woman I contacted?
Hi Chris, wanted to send you a note as I find your profile very humorous and appealing. But I am pursuing a relationship and have shut down matches.
If my situation changes I will seek you out. Chances are you will be snapped up.
Best of luck to you,
I mean, yeah, sure, it’s complimentary, but really why respond at all? That’s what most people do. That’s what I do.
Would you rather get no response or response such as this?
Perhaps I’ve become too sensitive, or even grown paranoid? I don’t know. All I know is that this irked me. Makes me wonder why she felt the need to respond as such. I guess it felt a bit patronizing, as if I needed her assurances or something. As if….pffft.